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stories by American Muslim women on courtship and/or dating

Posted by Achelois on January 10, 2008

My friend Baraka, together with her friend, is compiling non-fiction, personal stories by American Muslim women on courtship and/or dating to be published in an anthology.

WHY A BOOK ABOUT COURTSHIP/DATING?

There is a stereotype about Muslim women out there that does not show them as the thinking, feeling, lively people with loving hearts and independent minds that we know them to be. Partially, this is because there just aren’t enough real-life stories about Muslim women being told by Muslim women themselves.

The purpose of this collection is to take control of our narrative by telling our own stories, emphasizing the humanity we all share and celebrating the quirks that make us unique. We hope to do that through stories about courtship/dating because these rituals exist in every societal context; the search for a partner is universal.

We’re excited at the prospect of amplifying the voices of American Muslim women. If you think such perspectives need to be heard too, we invite you to contribute your story!

 

The deadline for submitting a pitch for stories is January 15th, 2007. For more details please check out this link.

 

I think it is a facinating idea so don’t hold on to your creative juices. Let them flow!

8 Responses to “stories by American Muslim women on courtship and/or dating”

  1. Shahrzad Says:

    It is good idea. most people think muslims dont have kind of affairs even with their husband/wife. They think muslim women are cold hearted and dont know meaning of Love and didnt taste it.
    It is great job really..

  2. Baraka Says:

    Salaam my dear S, and bless you for spreading the word!

    xo,
    Baraka

  3. 'liya Says:

    Too bad Canadians can’t be included, I’d love to share my story :D

  4. Achelois Says:

    Really Baraka, we British Muslim women love with equal passion ;)

  5. Sumera Says:

    Fab venture :)

    Courtship doesn’t necessarily mean sex or extra marital affairs. Simple friendships blossom into something special and before you know it BOOM :D

  6. mystic Says:

    I like yr advise to all women:

    “don’t hold on to your creative juices. Let them flow! ”

    Here is a cheap joke:

    A man was brought in court for having sex with his dead wife.

    Judge: You should be ashamed of yourself.
    Man: I didn’t know Sir ! She always acted same !

  7. Baraka Says:

    My dear S, I am sure that they do - in fact with far more wit too! :)

  8. Achelois Says:

    Hehe, Baraka

    And Mystic, I was wondering who’d get my pun ;)

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